This page is for all of the women who are curious to learn what cuckolding is really like – not the weird stuff in porn, and not the strange stuff from the bowels of reddit, and definitely not the mass produced male drive fantasy content – just loving cuckolding relationships in the real world, real life, actual relationships.

If you decide you would like to join Venus Connections Matchmaking Service we have a coupon code for women to use that will give a discount on the women’s membership. We had originally posted the code here for women but unfortunately some men (pretending to be women) tried to use it so we had to remove it. Please email if you are a woman and would like the code.

What is a loving cuckolding relationship?

Let’s start by talking about the basics. Loving cuckolding relationships are a one-sided open relationship where he is faithful to her (his preference) and she is given the gift of sexual experiences with others. In return for that gift, she gives him the gift of being involved in some way. Whether it’s being there, listening, hearing about it after, or picking out a sexy outfit, they love to share that sexual excitement in some way together. This relationship dynamic fosters a deep emotional bond, intense feelings of trust, intimacy, and love, and next level thrills.

Here is a short video where Venus explains the basics of a loving cuckolding relationship:

Why the Venus Connections Program is so female friendly

Venus has taken great care to create a matchmaking service that is safe, easy, and reliable for women who are looking for a loving cuckolding relationship.

Here’s how we addressed the many unique challenges which women traditionally face with online dating:

What you can expect from the men in the VC program:

Here at Venus Connections we have high expectations for conduct and behaviour of the men (and the women of course). We take the time to educate them on how to approach and interact with women in a proper and respectful way. The following are examples of what you should expect from them:

  • Clean cut and professional looking
  • On time and presentable
  • Polite and easy to talk with
  • Relationship focused
  • Ready to find love
  • Respectful of privacy
  • Honest

Hear from one of the women in the Venus Connections program:

Listen to Venus talk about the Venus Connections Program:

Resources for women interested in a loving cuckolding relationship:

Podcast: The sexually empowered woman who wants it all

Blog: Crystal Welch “How Women Can Discover The Addicting Freedom of Cuckoldry”

Blog: Cuckoldress Scarlet “Cuckolding from Abundance”

Book: Insatiable Wives, by Dr David Ley

Book: “Surrender, Submit, Serve Her.” The definitive guide to enacting Female Leadership and embracing the Female Dominated Household. by Key Barrett

Book: “Tell Me What You Want” The science of sexual desire and how it can improve your sex life. The largest survey of sexual fantasies in America–and what your sexual desires say about you – by Justin Lehmiller

Article: “Why More Women Are Suggesting Open Relationships”

Article: A strong libido and bored by monogamy: the truth about women and sex

Article: Women Struggle with Monogamy More Than Men

Research Study: What factors are associated with reporting lacking interest in sex and how do these vary by gender?

Venus also recommends the following video by Dan Savage: