Once a member purchases the membership they gain access to the member portal where there are next steps for the program.
The first step is to fill out a detailed questionnaire. The questionnaire is how we learn all about you and what you are looking for and once it’s submitted it will be reviewed by staff to ensure that our program is right for you.
Next you will start the educational program which consists of learning materials, quizzes, and reflective questions. This is meant to share information about loving cuckolding relationships and how to choose the right approach when dating in this lifestyle. Although you have three weeks to complete the lessons, most people complete them in a few hours or a day or two. Once your quizzes and reflective questions are reviewed, a member of our team will contact you to schedule your one hour interview with Venus.
The interview with Venus is where we fine tune what you are looking for and understand more about you. Once the interview is completed you will either be added to the registry (basic membership) or one of our matchmakers will begin searching for your first date (elite membership).
Here at Venus Connections we take honesty and truthfulness very seriously and we believe that great relationships must start with a foundation of trust. If we find that you have not been honest or have portrayed yourself incorrectly on your questionnaire, in your interview, or with a match, you will be removed from the program.
Please note that all members (female and male) are required to complete the initial questionnaire, lessons 1 and 2, and have an interview with Venus. Also please note that once you submit your initial questionnaire you then have up to 3 weeks to submit lessons 1 and 2. If you require a time extension, you will need to email us to ask for an extension prior to the end of the 3 weeks. Failure to complete the lessons within the 3 weeks and without a request for extension will result in removal from the program.
Types of memberships available
All memberships are a one time fee!
Basic Membership for the Registry:
- The full 3 week Venus Connections Education Program
- A one hour private interview with Venus
- Your detailed and individualized profile is then added to our private dating registry of candidates
- Free matches for the first 6 months, then match fees apply
This is a great choice for anyone passively looking for a match as it doesn’t include a personal matchmaker, but you are listed as a candidate in the registry in case an Elite Member comes along and is looking for someone like you.
Elite Matchmaking Membership:
- The full 3 week Venus Connections Education Program
- A one hour private interview with Venus
- A personal matchmaker who will work to find exactly what you are searching for – we do the work for you!
- Unlimited matches
This is a great option for anyone who is actively searching for a loving cuckolding relationship. A matchmaker will work one on one with you to find what you are looking for.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is Venus Connections right for me?
If you are seeking a loving cuckolding relationship with a life partner then this service is absolutely for you. People hire specialists such as financial advisors and personal trainers to handle so many aspects of their lives, so why not use a professional to help you find someone special.
How many women are in the Venus Connections Program?
This is a question we get asked often. On kink dating sites and Fetlife groups it seems like there are way more men seeking a cuckolding relationship than there are women. Does that reflect actual statistics or are the women just not there because the environment has been hostile for them?
We believe that there are many women who would love a cuckolding relationship but don’t know that the option exists. That’s why Venus started blogging 6 years ago and has been reaching millions with her podcast as well – to reach women and let them know that this beautiful relationship is a viable option.
We also believe that up until now, the negative environment that single women have endured online has been a huge deterrent for them to want to try to find someone. In fact, the single women who we have contacted online have expressed relief that this is finally available to them and joined right away.
With that being said, we do anticipate the ratio of women to men to mirror what research has showed in the United States. Dr. Justin Lehmiller is the author of “Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help Improve Your Sex Life,”. Dr. Lehmiller surveyed thousands of Americans and found that 58% of men and about a third of women had fantasized about cuckolding.
There are many women who are interested in cuckolding but who need to learn about it and have a safe and private place online to be able to find a partner for a loving cuckolding relationship – that’s what we work towards here.
I’m worried about my personal information. Is this site safe?
Venus has had to worry about her personal information being released to the public for years. Although she’s not worried about being embarrassed if friends or family know about her relationship interests, she does however have to be seriously concerned about the very real threat women face – being stalked and killed. For this reason she takes privacy very seriously and has always invested in the highest level firewall and security for this site.
I have an Elite Membership. How do I get matched?
One of our professional matchmakers will hand-select matches for you based upon the information we discuss in your initial interview combined with the on-going feedback we receive from you after every date and our matchmaker’s intuition. Your post-date feedback is an important part of our dating process as it allows us to fine tune your matches!
I have a Basic Membership. Do I get a personal matchmaker?
With a Basic Membership you don’t get the services of a personal matchmaker but you do get the education program, interview with Venus, and your profile added to our private dating registry.
What is the Dating Registry?
The registry is our private pool of candidates who are looking for a long term loving cuckolding relationship. It is private and not available for public or private viewing by members.
Do I have to provide my personal information or photos of myself?
We do require your personal information and two photos of yourself. These are strictly for us to use to get to know you and make more personalized matches for you. At no time do we ever share your information publicly or with other members without your explicit written consent. If you are not comfortable sharing this information with us then this is not the program for you.
What if I don’t want to do the 3 week educational courses?
The educational courses are mandatory for all members and must be completed within the first 3 weeks of entering the program.
Can I find someone local to my city?
Finding love is never easy. Finding love within a cuckolding relationship is also not an easy task but we make connecting easier here at Venus Connections. All members are expected to be willing to date long distance at least initially, if required. Members are responsible for costs associated with traveling to meet their new partner in person, if required.
Am I guaranteed to meet my life partner on here?
Although we work hard to make meaningful matches on Venus Connections, there is no guarantee that you will find love. The membership fee is a one time fee so you can remain in the registry indefinitely or use our matchmaking services until you find the right match.
Can I cancel anytime?
Yes you can cancel your membership anytime but the membership fee is non-refundable. You can put your membership on hold anytime by notifying us in writing and resume it at no charge but if you cancel your membership and then wish to resume you will need to pay the membership fee again.
I have many cuckolding fantasies that I want to have fulfilled. Is this the right place for me?
Here at Venus Connections we believe the heavy emphasis should be on initial relationship building and lighter on the fantasies. After all, it’s the loving relationship which makes the cuckolding part so special and meaningful. All members should be willing to focus on learning about their potential partners as a person and not as a means to fulfill a list of fantasies.
Do I have to have experience with cuckolding relationships to be a member?
Although experience is definitely an asset, it is not required. We provide education courses on loving cuckolding relationships so you can get a realistic concept of loving cuckolding relationships and dating in the LCR lifestyle.
What are virtual dates?
Once you are matched with someone who we think might be an ideal partner for you, you will receive an email with instructions about your virtual date. We use a simple online audio/video program for you to have a 30 minute conversation with your match. You must be on time, presentable, polite, and use your audio and video. Virtual dates are “blind dates” meaning you won’t know what your date looks like prior, which we think makes it more fun and exciting!
What if I change my mind about wanting a cuckolding relationship?
If you are hesitant or not entirely sure if a loving cuckolding relationship is right for you, DO NOT join the Venus Connections program. All members must be entirely committed to the process and to finding a loving cuckolding relationship. Backing out of an interview or virtual date due to fear is not acceptable behaviour and will result in your dismissal from the program.
How do I get started?
Once you’ve purchased one of the two memberships, you will have access to the Members Portal here on Venus Connections. There you will find the step by step instructions for completing the initial questionnaire, the educational courses and quizzes, and scheduling your interview with Venus. Our staff will also be sending you information by email to help you and answer any questions you may have.
How would someone be removed from the program?
There are some things that could lead to a member being removed from the program. Here are some of them:
- Being under the age of 21
- Looking for a type of relationship that conflicts with a loving cuckolding relationship ie. findom, master/slave dynamics, abuse
- Lying, dishonesty, or misleading information on your questionnaire, in your interview, or with a match
- Refusing to complete the educational program
- You are already in a relationship when you sign up for the program (you are not single)
- No-show for your interview or virtual date
- Cancelling a virtual date with less than 48 hours notice
- General continued portrayal of incompetency, tardiness, disorganization, poor life skills, combative or offensive character
- Breaching our terms of service
Do women get thoroughly screened as well as the men?
Absolutely. The women go through the same careful scrutiny to ensure they don’t have ulterior motives and are genuine and sincere about wanting a loving cuckolding relationship. If we decide that the candidate is not a good fit for our program we will cancel their membership.
Do I have to be totally honest on my questionnaire?
Yes. If you are dishonest or lie about anything on your questionnaire, in your interview, or with a match, you will be removed from the program.
Are the membership fees reasonable?
According to the Better Business Bureau the average cost of a matchmaker service is $5000. We thought that amount was ridiculous so we chose to make our fees much more reasonable and we did our research and made sure our fees were lower than anything similar out there. For the cost of a usual dinner date, you can have your profile added to our private registry and have the chance to be matched with a partner who is compatible with the kind of relationship that you’ve been searching for. And our membership fees are a one time fee so no need to renew. Your membership stays active until you choose to put it on hold or cancel it.
What parts of the world can I date in?
Most of our clients are in North America however we accept clients from around the globe. It is highly beneficial if you are comfortable dating long distance and have the means to travel – and let’s face it, those obstacles are more than worth it to find the love of your life in the LCR lifestyle.
What are the match fees for the Basic Membership?
Basic Memberships for the dating registry get free matches for the first 6 months. After that point it is $35 per match. If for some reason a member does not get a match in the first 6 months, then their next match is free.
Do you match couples with bulls?
No at this time we only match single men and single women who are looking for a cuckolding relationship.